Parents’ yelling takes heavy toll on teens

Parents’ yelling is a turnoff for teens, but don’t mistake their emotional shutdown as a sign of ennui.

It may be a sign of aggression.

In a recent study, researchers at USC Dornsife explored how the stress of frequent exposure to family conflict and aggressive behavior — from yelling to hitting — takes its toll on the teenage brain, and investigated whether aggression breeds aggression.

The researchers had thought that they would see the teens’ brains abuzz with activity in the wake of family conflict. Surprisingly, brain scans revealed the opposite: The teens who had experienced aggression at home exhibited muted responses in the emotional-processing areas of their brains as they watched videos of their families.

“When kids grow up in aggressive families, they may show differences in the way their brains process emotion,” said Darby Saxbe, assistant professor of psychology, who led the study. “Specifically, they show less activation when viewing and processing the emotions of their parents who have behaved more aggressively. And then they go on to act more aggressively toward those same parents.”

The researchers also noticed a striking pattern: The teens who exhibited the lowest emotional response were children of the most aggressive parents. And those teens reported behaving more aggressively toward their parents two years later.

Even if no physical harm has occurred, the stress of aggressive upbringing leaves its mark. Bearing these emotional scars, some teens from very aggressive homes may eventually lash out at their parents. For those teens, input may equal output.

Assistant Professor of Psychology Darby Saxbe. Photo by Peter Zhaoyu Zhou.

“These findings help us identify a signature in the brain of the transmission of aggression from one generation to another,” Saxbe said. “They also point to the role of emotion processing and empathy in aggressive behavior.”

Breaking down the study

Conducted in two parts, the study followed 21 teens from homes where one or both parents were aggressive to varying degrees, and either directed the aggression at each other or at their children.

For the first part of the study, researchers recorded video of the teens, then 15 years old, in a discussion with their families about conflicts. The scientists also produced separate videos of peers whom the teens didn’t know engaged in a different discussion.

Two years later, the researchers showed the teens short clips of their family discussions. They asked the teens to “try to put yourself in that person’s shoes and imagine how they are feeling” as they watched. Then, the researchers recorded magnetic resonance images of the teens completing four-minute runs of both the family and peer videos as they rated the emotions of the parents, themselves and their peers on a scale of 1 to 4, from negative to positive.

At a follow-up lab visit soon after the scans were completed, teens were asked to rate how aggressively they behaved toward their parents during family conflict. Researchers realized that the teens’ muted brain response to their parents is closely related to their parents’ past aggression and the aggression they later directed at their parents.

Researchers have a couple of other interpretations about the teens’ muted responses.

“It might mean that they are tuning out and have a lack of motivation to understand or connect with parents’ emotions,” Saxbe said. “It also seems like they might be adapting to prolonged family or parent aggression by deactivating the emotional brain in response to those same aggressive parents.”

In self-preservation mode

If that is the case, then this study supports the “attenuation hypothesis”: Children in stressful family environments, for the sake of self-preservation, turn to avoidance and disengagement as a coping mechanism.

Although aggression can breed aggression, Saxbe urged caution against making any generalizations. Not all children growing up in stressful households become aggressive adults, she said.

However, USC researchers plan to investigate the issue of aggression passing from generation to generation by studying the teens when they are older and in dating relationships.

The study was published this month in the journal Development and Psychopathology.